"Dear" in British English
When a British English speaker refers to somebody he/she has never met before as "dear" (like for example in "thank you, dear"), should "dear" be considered as some synonyme of "madam", neutral tool to express politeness, or is it used to express some sort of sympathy towards the person?
I can't speak for British English, but in American English the addition of "dear" would be considered a tool to express politeness (and a certain feigned familiarity toward the receipient). It is not neutral, but directed toward a female. It is not a synonym for "madame" as it contains no bias toward the age or marital status of the receipient -- it could equally be used with a young girls or older woman. In American English, madame is excessively formal, somewhat archaic, and pressumes the woman is "of a certain age.
|link comment||answered Jan 10 '13 at 05:07 Jeff Pribyl Grammarly Fellow|
There are several informative replies to a similar question, including many which discuss the use of "dear" in British English, here: http://english.stackexchange.com/questions/8203/using-dear-darling-or-honey-to-address-a-friend
|link comment||answered Jan 10 '13 at 07:42 Shawn Mooney Expert|
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